Do chubby women all use misleading photos? Where are they all?

So I’m only really attracted to women with a few extra pounds - call it a fetish if you must but it’s always been this way. I can find other women pretty but I never really feel sexually draw toward them.

Basically mum bod, skinny fat, chubbyish, not seriously overweight and not extreme surgical curves but just soft, maybe with a bit of a chubby belly, a bit of cellulite, it’s always seemed really sexy and womanly to me. Of course I still look for a nice smile and good skin and things too, and of course I’m only interested in someone who I have emotional chemistry with too.

Out in public probably 1 in 10 women I see fit the bill… on dating apps I can swipe through five hundred profiles and see none.

Obviously it’s not the case that none of these women are using dating apps.

Of course everyone is putting their best foot forward and using photos they think will be most appealing but it a bit insane. And frustrating for someone with my taste because I’m probably swiping left on women who appear really thin but aren’t in reality.

Plus by doing this they’re going to wind up on dates with men who are expecting and wanting a thin woman so they’re playing a losing game.

The other issue is that as a fit looking guy a lot of women who perceive themselves as being in worse shape than me seem to get really insecure and I have a hard time convincing them that I’m really attracted to them and not just horny or desperate.

Do you have any advice for how I should express this without making them feel fetishised?

I’ve seriously thought about adding something to my bio but that might be a bit too far.