AIO by not getting my bf a drink ?

Excuse my typos in screenshots it looked so right in the moment **

I (F24) am out at the store and I get on the phone with my boyfriend M(30) we’re chatting everything is normal I tell him I’m on my cycle . I have a headache . He talks to me about our relationship and “playing my part” as we have future ambitions we’ve been together for 2 years.

Anyways , I ask him is there anything he wants from the store and he says he’s not sure . I ask if there’s anything we need at the spot he says he’s not sure . Okay…. I say well we’ve been going out to the store at night to get snacks a lot lately , I can totally just get that now . He’s like yeah we do need some drinks . My response is okay cool what kind of drink do you want ? He tells me it doesn’t matter and I’m like okay well can you just tell me so I don’t have to guess ??! It would be one thing if we drunk the same drinks but I don’t really like sweets or sodas so this is purely something for him to decide .

He tells me we’ve been together 2 years I should know what he wants and I’m like all the time I can make an educated guess of what you want when we go to coffee shops , boba because I have the awareness to recommend something If someone isn’t familiar with it . I’ll even get him something to drink at the store when he doesn’t ask for it . So it’s not like I’m just trying* to be a way .

We start going back and forth and I’m like why can’t you just tell me what you want ???! I don’t want to have to guess this time . I’m too indecisive myself and I don’t want to overthink because it’s easy for me to do that . He’s saying it doesn’t matter over and over so I’m like if it doesn’t matter then just throw something out there why do I have to be like the randomizer, slot machine right now and matter fact he’s heard me say often “can you tell me exactly what you want so I don’t have to guess” iso I’m just not hitting him with this mentality out the blue and it’s like pulling teeth for him to just tell me .

I say we’re on the phone we can clearly communicate this . He hangs up on me and tells me how he doesn’t see a future with me that I’m not playing my part that THIS is what he’s talking about , not being his peace . And this “trivial bullshit” he never had to deal with in his past relationships . I’m being a bitch and he doesn’t care if I’m on my period And I’m thinking did I really blow this up ? I’m hurt by his response because this is one of many time he reaches this extreme on something that I agree is trivial . I did have intentions of just getting something anyways despite the back and forth but since he sent that text I just didn’t bother . Should I just have gotten him something I knew he’d like ? Could I have avoided this ?